What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 16.06.2025 05:35
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
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27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
Do other British people agree that the UK should reconquer Ireland?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
What is your favorite position? Why?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
What is the most unwatchable movie you have sat through?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
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44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
Why do men think I’m easy just by looking at me?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
Any that are a turn off?
Why does a college girl cover her face with a scarf in Bangalore?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Why did you choose not to join Mensa?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
I'm British and I hate my glasses. Are prescription glasses better in New York City?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
Please share Did you stop?
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48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
Why is the US going after Canada after all? What is the reason for all this hostility?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
What happens to single guys when they get older?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
Does turmeric help fight cancer? If so, how?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
Any that are a turn off?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
Would you read them together?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
*** Random Questions ***
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
Nothing too Serious
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
How old are you? Male or Female?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
If you win, what will you make them do?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
29- How superstitious are you?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
If yes, what?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
Family Relation Age Play
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
*** Questions About Me ***
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
The Ice Breaker Questions
39~ What are your love languages?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
52~ What are your hobbies?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?